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Why finding a cofounder is so hard, secrets to waking up at 5am and Valentine's Day gift ideas
And other lists I made this week
Welcome to Make life easy, Breezi.
Your friend who sends you a weekly update on what she's working on, reading through, and thinking about – in a list.
I have one rule to this newsletter, lists only. The only exception is this yellow box. I'll use this to say anything that needs to be said in a full paragraph. This is a special newsletter – it's my second one and it's being sent on February 2nd. Read until the end to find out why that's special.
Start up solo or bring on a co-founder – here are 5 factors I considered when making the decision
Complementary skills and expertise: Do I have the capabilities, well-rounded enough, to run a business alone?
Emotional tolerance: How confident was I in my ability to withstand hardship, isolation and stress if when it arises?
The timing and urgency of moving forward: Was my time was better spent searching for a cofounder or making progress in building our initial MVP?
Alternatives to a cofounder: Could I bring on advisors, mentors or hire early employees instead to get things off the ground?
Commitment to vision: Will I be able to find someone who believes in that mission as deeply, to the core, as I do?
I also considered that according to this article, every startup needs
A hacker: engineers and developers
A hustler: marketing, growth and business
A hipster: product design and user experience
Image from Dave McClure
Hacker, hustler, hipster aside – I also wanted a cofounder that shares these non-negotiable's
Has equal skin in the game
Is as passionate about the idea + the long term vision as you are
Brings a diversity of ideas, experience and skills to the startup
Protects your back (and vice versa), especially in times of struggle
Is someone you trust completely
Ultimately, I decided that
I do want to cofound this with someone; I can be a Hustler and a Hipster but getting myself to elite Hacker level was going to take some time
But until I meet someone, I'm going to be a solo founder and build as much as I can
It's a lot easier to start as a solo founder and bring on a cofounder
Then to start a company with a cofounder and realize it's not the right fit
Here is a great article I read on what it means to be a solo founder, highly recommend this if you want to start something but feel hesitant doing it alone
Twitter threads I think you should read this week
Why I've decided to start getting up at 5am
I have never been a morning person
If you were in my 8am class in college, we probably never spoke because I was always asleep somewhere in the back of the classroom
A few months ago, my friend Val shared with me that she was reading a book called "The 5am Club" by Robin Sharma and was actually doing it, getting up at 5am
Val is a beast: she's builds brand's TikTok accounts, is a UGC creator and designs her own clothing brand on Shopify
I was intrigued – I always felt as if "morning people" like Val knew some sort of secret that us regular people didn't
I sincerely apologize to my profs for this
The secret to waking up at 5am
It's not supposed to be easy
I kept waiting for the morning I would hear my 5am alarm, wake up and beam with joy
Then I realized, that's never going to happen
But that is the secret – it's supposed to be hard
Doing that hard thing of setting your alarm for 5am and starting your day having already conquered your biggest challenge
That's what makes you beam with joy
My current 5am morning routine*
Alarm goes off, I count down 5-4-3-2-1, and I rip the blankets off me without giving my brain time to start negotiating with myself
I immediately turn the lights on, put my Airpods in and listen to a podcast while I'm getting ready in that first hour
These were some of my favorite podcast episodes from last week
Releasing Toxic Beliefs, Mindset Tools for Your Dream Life, Tarte Cosmetics on HIBT
Then I change into workout clothes and sit down at my desk to read
Currently, halfway through Power by Jeffrey Pfeffer (for the second time)
After reading, I spend an hour learning – that often comes in the form of reading articles, problem solving in my journal and making progress on Breezi
I usually workout at 8am, either boxing, weightlifting or Barry's
I don't check my phone notifications until 9:30am when I'm back home
Then I start my day!
*Transparently, I haven't been consistent with 5am but when I do follow this routine, it's awesome
The first time I thought of building a consumer product at 6am in the morning
My favorite quotes and excerpts from "The 5am Club" by Robin Sharma
"The time you least feel like doing something is the best time to do it"
"World-Class begins where your comfort zone ends"
"Stop managing your time and start managing your focus"
"Daily discomfort is the price of enduring success"
"Real power, then, comes not from a life of ease but one of intense effort, devoted discipline and demanding action in the direction of what your supreme self knows to be right"
The special meaning behind 2/2 @ 2:22pm
This is my 2nd newsletter
Today is February 2nd at 2:22pm
It's special to me because my favorite number is 22
Growing up, I always heard this saying in my mind:
"First is the worst, second's the best"
So I thought to myself, 22 should be my number
Because I want to be the best of the best
Valentine's Day is coming up, here are some gift ideas
Boozy and decadent chocalates from Compartes
A decorative throw with love festivities from Sunday Citizen
Cinnamon Heart soy-coconut candle from Mala
The best smelling fragrance (gender-neutral) from Huron
Anything from the Love Collection at Jenny Bird
If you're single, here are some products I think you should buy for yourself as a celebration of freedom
The most organized gym bag ever from Haven Athletic
This Washed Lavender Tyler Sweatshirt from Anine Bing
A pair of the Broken Wristband jeans from AGOLDE
Concert tickets to anything you've been eyeing (I just got tickets to see Illenium in Denver in June!)
The "famous-in-dtc-world" Hexclad cookware that Gordon Ramsay loves
In case no one told you
Don't forget to check in on your New Year's resolutions
Too many people set goals at the beginning of the year, just to never look at them again until December 31st
A new month is a great time to revisit them
Also, it's completely okay to change them, re-prioritize and update things where necessary
My friend Erin has a great article on creating "walled gardens" instead of resolutions
How can I help you
Need an intro to someone in my network?
Looking for a freelancer or agency recommendation?
Not impressed with your current email and SMS marketing?
Email me back – I always respond
What to look forward to in the next newsletter
Why I think social media sucks these days
The #1 tip that solved work-life balance for me
My previous life in acting
If you found anything in this newsletter helpful, I'd love to connect on Twitter – tweet me a screenshot of your favorite part and let's chat 👋
I'll be back next week with more lists!